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Every new "friend" I make seems to be a toxic bully and/or narcissist. How do I stop this cycle?

2022.01.25 10:41 Dark_Meta_Knight Every new "friend" I make seems to be a toxic bully and/or narcissist. How do I stop this cycle?

About Me I am 21 Male. The core problem is that I keep making toxic friends who end up bullying me. From what I gather they believe I don't respect myself.
I'm socially awkward and shy, but I'm very affectionate (verbally, not physically) as I'm an empath. I also get highly invested in all my relationships because I don't have that many friends, so my energy isn't stretched very thin. I remember a lot of little details of what people tell me, am very forgiving, and I often give more than I take.
Most of what I do for people I don't consider a big deal and doesn't take much time. A text with advice on something we talked about here and there, burning a CD for someone who's interested in my music taste, stuff like that.
What The Bullying Is There are several reasons I've been indirectly "told" why. They say it behind my back but towards me so I can hear it, a typical bully tactic to try to change someone they don't like. "He's too invested," "He doesn't respect himself," "He doesn't know how to communicate," "Player" (If I'm so nice that someone catches feelings, that is not my problem. You can be emotionally close with someone without sleeping with them, crazy stuff I know.) "Fake, Narcissist" (And other projection)
I even get verbally abused outside of work (work is where this started) just for my appearance. I have a "bored" neutral face, deep voice, and bushy eyebrows, so others often assume I have anger issues.
What I've tried I figure they're already just trying to make me look bad, so confrontation is of no benefit to me. Even when I've confronted bullies one-on-one (with a firm tone and full eye contact, mind you) they have always resorted to gaslighting in some form; minimizing my feelings, acting like they didn't say anything, etc. I block people who do that and avoid interacting. I just ignore people talking shit at this point. Confrontation wastes my time because they don't empathize with me, and it's a waste of their time because I'm not giving them what they want; change in myself.
I tried reaching out and initiating friendships myself, figuring that I just attract toxic people, but I've had the same results from most of them too...
I should make it clear that it's the loss of respect that bothers me, not what they're saying itself. I firmly believe in who I am, I just feel like not many others do.
End It's as if I'm so genuine and kind that nobody believes I'm real. I always feel misunderstood and feel like no one outside of my family really knows who I am. I get very anxious and nervous when making new friends because I expect the cycle to repeat itself.
Is there anything I can do besides just accept that only 5% of people I meet will understand me? Acceptance feels like the healthy option, since it's something outside of my control. (What others assume of me.)
I feel like this is more common than I think and a lot of people will empathize with it. Thank you for reading! :)
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